A Creative Alternative To Baby TV Time

The last thing you’re going to catch me doing is provoking parental guilt. So, I’m going to assume you’ve heard all about the hazards of TV for infants and toddlers. It doesn’t surprise me that parents ignore the research (and the American Academy of Pediatrics advisory) and turn on the TV for children under 2 anyway.  How can we blame a mom or dad for wanting to read a whole sentence in the newspaper, cook dinner, talk on the phone uninterrupted, have a few minutes of privacy in the bathroom, or just get a few well-deserved moments of peace? 

It baffles me that the experts give warnings and criticisms, but nobody offers parents viable alternatives to using TV as a babysitter. Thank you very much American Academy of Pediatrics, ASHA (American Speech-Language-Hearing-Association) and many others, but telling us it’s wiser to spend time talking to our babies, reading, singing and playing peek-a-boo isn’t addressing our issue. Most of us are well aware that we need to spend lots of time and energy interacting with our babies physically and socially. We also need a BREAK once in awhile. It’s a little insulting to me when experts say, “no, no, NO!” and then give advice that ignores the reason most parents use TV in the first place.

The good news is that there is another option, and it addresses the needs of both parent and child. Babies thrive, parents can take breaks, and when we are with our child we get to “do less and enjoy more.”  It is simple enough that I was able to do it with three children (and I’m no martyr or genius), and I will never understand (apart from the fact there’s no money to be made) why it is such a well guarded secret.

The answer: instilling in our babies the joyful habit of self-directed play, adopting the lifestyle recommended by pediatrician Emmi Pikler and infant specialist Magda Gerber.

The trap parents fall into is the vicious cycle of using screen time to occupy a baby. That creates the very same problem we are using TV to solve — a child who does not entertain himself. Babies who spend time ‘watching’ unlearn what they are born ready and eager to do — what parents need them to do — daydream, explore, experiment, create play independently.

Although initiating thoughts and activities comes naturally to infants, extended periods of independent playtime don’t happen unless we cultivate them. This means establishing one or two safe, enclosed play areas for babies (outdoors is wonderful if possible), and then encouraging them to routinely spend their “alert time” (between sleep, feedings and diaper changes) in these soon familiar environments.  We can watch and enjoy our babies, “floor sit” and eventually leave them to work or relax nearby, while they spend time learning from the safe objects and toys they choose. In my experience, these rooms (or sections of rooms) are treasured by children way beyond the age they need them for safety. A child’s play space becomes the comfortable, therapeutic, and imaginative place where dreams are born.

Eventually, most of us will introduce our children to movies and TV. My advice: wait as long as you can, and then use it sparingly. Personally, one reason I avoided the option of TV time was the added pressure of trying to control it (to the already long list of toddler power struggles). It worked better for me to avoid it entirely until after the age of 3.

Exhaust the use of crayons, blocks, dolls and dollhouses, puzzles, shape sorters, play-doh, balls, books, wheel toys, sidewalk chalk (one of the best inventions ever), Legos, etc., before resorting to movies and TV. When children who are adept at occupying themselves seem bored, they are often on the verge of an idea for a new activity. Sometimes they need more of our attention, or a nap.

If you need entertainment for an afternoon lull and music isn’t engaging enough, try audio books or children’s podcasts before considering TV or videos. There is usually a good selection of audio CDs at the library. They don’t interfere with a child’s listening and learning skills the way TV does. They stimulate imagination rather than zoning a child out, and they aren’t as disturbing or scary as movies. The ones that come with books are great, too, and you can show your child how to turn the page when they hear the “ding”.

If we can postpone the use of TV (or break the habit in the early years), our child has opportunities to develop the neural pathways needed to be a good listener and learner, gross and fine motor skills, problem solving abilities, creativity and a strong sense of self.

We are all bound to make many parenting mistakes, but the love of inner-directed play, creative thought and solitude will be lifelong gifts that neither you nor your child will ever regret.

Please enjoy this inspirational video of 15 month old Joey demonstrating self-reliance, persistance, focus, ingenuity, inner-directedness and much more — SELF-DIRECTED, INDEPENDENT PLAY AT ITS BEST.


I share much more about fostering creative, independent play in Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting and I share my gift ideas for encouraging self-directed play HERE. 

Dr. Jane Healy’s books Endangered Minds and Your Child’s Growing Mind:  Brain Development and Learning From Birth to Adolescence examine in detail the effects of TV and video use on brain development.

Please feel free to share your frustrations and successes with the TV issue!

(Photo by texasgurl.)


Please share your comments and questions. I read them all and respond to as many as time will allow.

  1. All sounds good. Best TV alternative I have ever found is a little more simple. It’s called a big cardboard box and a fistful of crayons! Open box, insert child, insert crayons, unleash at least a good 10-20 minutes of unsupervised imaginative play.

  2. While i appreciate this suggestion, i submit that it doesn’t work with all kids. My son would not play on his own until he was about 2.5. And he was so grabby in the kitchen with me that at 18 months i felt i had to give up and turn on the TV. Or not eat dinner. I don’t like the idea, but “just let them play independently” is not as easy as it sounds. My daughter on the other hand…loves to play without me. Score!

    1. I’m a granny of a 23 mo boy brought up from birth by parents using Janets techniques. The child is never allowed in the kitchen and was told it is too dangerous for little people. His dad built him a tower he can stand in that brings him comfortably to counter height so he helps mummu or daddy cook dinner. He loves food, eats just about everything and can tell you the ingredients by name and smell. He will not enter my kitchen when he visits but if he wants to come into it to see something he will ask to be picked up and shown. He also made his mother “smoked salmon scrambled eggs” for breakfast the other day with his play kitchen gear!!!! I can’t tell you what a pleasure this child is as he honors us back as much as we honor him.

      1. Can you recommend where to buy audible books with a book to read along? I think this will work perfectly with my daughter.
        I haven’t have anything luck to find them online.

        1. Your library should have audiobooks to check out. We check out both DVDs in the library, and audiobooks online. Best part is, they’re free!
          My son listened to the endless magic treehouse titles over and over again while playing. He has an amazing vocabulary from listening to audiobooks.
          My kids enjoyed a big box full of rice to play in (pouring, sensory)
          The other big favorite was a kiddie pool. It was the perfect safe space. We filled it with stuffed animals and pillows one day, and shaving cream the next. So many Experiments with ice, flour, bubbles. All messy projects were done in the kiddie pool. Easiest clean up.

    2. Dido for me. It’s yhe same thing in my house. All three always are grabbing my legs…my only solice for a 15-20 minute episode of Bubble Guppies works. Even after that TV doesn’t keep them preoccupied. I haven’t made a proper dinner for over 4 years

    3. I try desperately to leave my 2 boys age 1 and 3 to entertain themselves with Lego, cars etc rather than turn on the TV BUT this does not normally lead to creative play but instead my 3yr old becomes destructive, throws things and hurts his brother. Any ideas on how to stop this? At some point I have to the household chores. Playing with them every moment is a wonderful thought but it doesn’t get the washing done or dinner cooked. Please help this tired mommy.

      1. Separate them. Create a safe “yes” space for the little one with baby gates (if you don’t already have that) and separate them for some independent play time. It might take some boundary holding to make sure the 3yo stays out, it might take you playing in the space with the 1yo frequently for them to get into it, but it is a LIFESAVER. I did this when my baby was just starting to sit and crawl because I just couldn’t protect him from all of the hits his 3yo sister was throwing at him. It saved all of our relationships. Now my 1.5yo will sit happily in there reading books or playing cars and his sister will read books or play pretend in the living room and I can empty the whole dishwasher. There is a lot of info on this technique on a Facebook group called “Visible Child” run by Robin Einzig – highly recommend!

    4. I second this. My daughter would scream from about 2 months of age because she wanted to be held, nursed, walked, swayed 24/7, and often only by me. As a toddler, she wants me to play and talk to her nonstop. We resorted to the TV out of desperation. It is getting better with age though. But I still wish I would have heard this advice and had at least given it a try. I have never heard someone address the issue this way and I really love this article. I hope if we have more children, independent play might come more easily to them.

  3. What I need are some ideas on how to change some already (unfortunately) developed habits. My now 22 month old son likes to play on his own but he usually insists on an audience and when I would attempt to leave him to his play and go do the dishes it usually triggered a meltdown which is when I started resorting to a few minutes of baby genius nursery rhyme videos. Since then the Screen time has increased (Daddy likes to turn on certain shows for him in the morning.) So I guess I need to re-direct both of them now.

  4. Despite my intent, we did start watching *some* cartoons very early, in the car as LO would scream her head off for the entirety of the journey and nothing seemed to distract her, or at mealtime, and we generally comment on what she’s watching (mostly Peppa Pig and very gentle cartoons) and explaining. While not an ideal solution, it’s actually helped her language A LOT (she’s bilingual and she had a slight delay). Her attention span is much longer than most kids her age or older and I have noticed the same in other kids whose mothers had a same approach. So this really makes me think whether this subject, like most, could be highly individual.

    1. I don’t know how old this comment is but if you would like ideas for better shows Daniel Tiger and Puffin Rock give much better behavior examples than Peppa Pig does.

      1. Tinkama motha says:

        My baby live for Daniel tiger… Thee only cartoon she smile at….

        1. Jennifer Smith says:

          I think, to be honest, this approach depends entirely on the temperament of the child. And I have to stress parenting during a pandemic has proved difficult, therefore whatever works for parent and child?

          I hold my hands up, but I introduced tv to my near 3 year old when she was extremely young. For some reason she was a baby that hated being in a bouncer, lying on her play mat etc and she would scream incessantly. So one day I put “Sing” on and she calmed down.

          That said I do believe in “everything in moderation”. I try to get her out at least once a day for a few hours and she also has nursery one afternoon a week. I’m happy to say her nursery report is highly satisfactory and the Health Visitor also declared, at her two year review, that she is an intelligent, capable little girl.

          My daughter, when tiring of the tv will start to branch out and occupy herself. Her play preference is usually one of ‘destruct mode’ and see how that works out, and she still very much likes me to be around, joining in. And of course her attention span is probably 15-20 mins max. But I will say this, from the moment she dropped all her naps (around 28 months) the only way she would recharge was by watching one of her favourite films/programmes so I wasn’t going to interfere with that.

          Only a mother knows what is best and works for her child. It’s not as easy as switching off the tv till they’re three or older – one size doesn’t fit all which my daughter has proved.

      2. I would check out Jerrica Sannes (Raise Wildflowers) on Instagram. She talks about how Bluey is a better option and Daniel Tiger isn’t good at all. She gives great reasons why.

  5. A question I have is, how do we manage a situation where we are out with our child, perhaps at an in-home gathering, where the TV is turned on and other children are watching TV? Is there a risk of children getting hooked from situations like these, or can this quickly be undone once we are home and revert back to our RIE lifestyle? As guests, it’s tricky to control the behaviour of our hosts without coming off the wrong way!

    1. Farheena Rahman says:

      Hi Amrita, our 3 year old and 1 year old are both screen free but we do visit people and occasionally he’ll watcg something at someone else’s house. He views it as a special thing for a short period that’s it. We don’t have a TV in our main living area so they never think ask because that’s where we spend most of our time.

      Most of our friends know we’re screen free and try to turn it off and ask the kids to play together but of course there are exceptions. My son’s have watched stuff on planes too but again it was viewed as a treat because we’re going on a holiday.

  6. In my experience (we are totally screen-free with a nearly 4 year old and 8 month old) this is all good and works well for us – though I am always available during periods of independent play because they need me to see them, even if they don’t have my full attention. Also our house is too small to have a fully safe space so I always have an eye out for them. Music CDs and stories are what we use if we really need to ‘get something done’ – and I’m talking for 10-20 minute periods, not more, otherwise you pay later with a crotchety, attention-deprived child. However, I would add that at times independent play doesn’t work. This is usually because one or other child is in a developmental leap, or becoming ill. They are asking for more attention from us to help them overcome this hurdle. Janet does mention this, but the way these times feel as a parent can be so overwhelming that I think they need a little more attention in the article. On those difficult days (weeks), I really have to give up my desire to do very much at all by myself. This is hard. But it is SO SO WORTHWHILE because the minute the leap or sickness is done the rewards in terms of independent play, confidence and mutual respect are unbelievable.

  7. Says: “It’s a little insulting to me when experts say, “no, no, NO!” and then give advice that ignores the reason most parents use TV in the first place.”
    Then: “Exhaust the use of crayons, blocks, dolls and dollhouses, puzzles, shape sorters, play-doh, balls, books, wheel toys, sidewalk chalk (one of the best inventions ever), Legos, etc., before resorting to movies and TV. ”
    Only viable option given: books on tape.

    1. With respect, I’m not understanding what you’re saying. Perhaps you think crayons, blocks, etc., are yet more ways we must actively entertain our children? For me, they are about children self-directing their own independent play, while we sometimes observe and other times do our own thing, take breaks from parenting, etc.

      1. As a mother of a child who will put anything in his mouth due to sensory issues I agree with tiredmum that these are not safe items for individual play for my 2 year old. Wooden blocks and toy trucks yes but nothing like play doh or sidewalk chalk. Puzzles and shap sorters he will not play with independently as he requires me to be there with him or he loses interest. He will not stay entertained long enough on anything for me to get anything done as he has a short attention span. Even when I do put videos on my phone for him he will constantly be changing the songs/videos and needs me to be sitting next to him and will cry or yell for me if I get up to do anything or follow me and want to know what I’m doing and try to help. One great solution to some things is to get him to help me with certain things. He loves to help with laundry and taking the trash out and washing the tables. He wants to help with everything but there are some things he can’t help with such as dishes and cooking and those are the times that are most difficult for me.

      2. Janet, my daughter has all these toys. She used to play with these more. Now she doesn’t play with them for more than 5 minutes a day. If she does, she’s drawing or painting on walls. I tried everything, adding toys, removing toys. I’m tired of the mess and destruction, yet no play. She doesn’t listen to direction. She spills drinks. Makes mess, pees on furniture, moves things around the house. I like when she helps in the kitchen. But it’s so unproductive, she acts out, she’s bored. In the meantime her infant sister is sleep deprived, it takes me long to eat and impossible to keep the house somewhat clean. I love to empathize and all that, but I also have a second child to take care off and I can’t always address all the feelings, when the other has a more pressing need. I hate tv, but my house is a mess, my child has other needs which can’t be fullfilled in a pandemic, and there’s a baby that also needs me. Yes some days there is no tv, we manage, but there is too little play,too much mess.

        1. Pandemic or not I second all of this that you’ve said and others have as well about how unrealistic this is as a solution for all (not sure it was portrayed as such but it seems to be the concern and what most are getting from it). I totally agree with self directed play but that’s with my kids in my line of vision so that = me getting NOTHING done except maybe drinking my coffee before it gets cold. I think the intentions are great here in the article and I definitely appreciate the sense of offering a viable solution for some but I’m with you, this isn’t viable for our household! Who can keep any kid over the age of 2 in a separate enclosed space from the baby who’s too vulnerable to be left alone with the older one? Is everyone but me rich and have some giant room or something? I mean really, climbing and figuring a way out of baby jail is like the ultimate fun thing right? And they’re typically more than capable of it at 2years and up all while leaving destruction and an hour worth of mess to clean up…and all for 10-20 minutes of “breathing room” or “time to do any housework” who can get any housework done in 10-20 minutes? Not me! Also, genuinely don’t understand how anyone can keep a kiddo out of the kitchen and actually cook a meal? Maybe popping a frozen something in the oven or crock pot but otherwise, cooking takes time and focus or at least for me to cook does and I enjoy my children learning to cook with me as do they. There are actually a lot of great programs out there for learning and I think it’s completely helpful as a supplement. My now 4.5 yr old watches TV occasionally and my 12 month old even less than that but when it is on, TV doesn’t babysit my kids, it provides flashy lights, fun noises and music or a story and really they barely pay attention to it anyway…I think what’s more important is what is on the TV rather than the TV is on. We live in an age of technology that kids are required to know and use in grade school (seriously my Pre-k child is expected to use a chrome book) and I think not exposing them to the stimulation of a screen is actually more detrimental than letting them slowly be exposed.

  8. Thank you for the alternatives, I agree if you’re going to say “don’t do it” we need to replace it with something else (that works)!! I’m expecting my first baby soon and your articles give me confidence that I can do this 🙂 PS I am a sewer and my plan is to make a “TV cover” for our large TV in our living room.. I am hoping out of sight, out of mind!

  9. Analice Floriani says:

    I agree with this article. Our daughter is now 26 mo and watches TV only once a week. She wakes up really early ever day and on Sundays I do not have the energy to get crayons out or play entusiastically or be creative lol I think TV does damage our children. At the same time, Emília doesn’t show interest to the tele for more than half an hour. She enjoys playing and I feel really content about it.

  10. Rosamumd LEINBERGER says:

    We don’t have any screens and I’ve been with my daughter since birth, but she cannot play without me for longer than 5 minutes. We have a wonderful garden full of magic nooks, sandpit, swing, lovely blocks, scarves, duplo, tiny dolls, big dolls, bears, crayons and magnet toys. So not too many toys. But she insists on playing WITH me. Her games are incredibly elaborate and thoughtful – can go on for hours on end. But at 2.5 I’d expected to have half an hour here or there to do a few things. She also can’t sleep without touching me – so I have incredibly little time to do stuff. I won’t resort to screens ever, but I must say that justthe absence of screens doesn’t mean a child will play by themselves. I think it has allowed her imagination to develop fully, but she still seems to need participants in her play. Any ideas to encourage play on her OWN?

    1. Yea- slowly get her used to playing by herself. Say “I need to wash one dish and then I’ll be right back”. Then do 1 dish and come right back. Slowly increase these times away but always return when you say you will. You will slowly build her ability to play without your presence.

  11. Spotify even has some children’s story podcasts which are quite good, any age appropriate and good for listening on trips, when doing chores around the house.

  12. We found that our 2 year old loves to be involved, so if you need to fold laundry maybe them give a basket of stuff to fold or dress baby with, or even the empty laundry basket which becomes a boat etc, if cleaning up given them a small broom or or duster to join in.

  13. In total agreement about holding off on screen time as long as possible. Our older son didn’t get started until after 3. Now the challenge is we have a 5 month old and for the moment I can mostly keep him away from the screen while my older one watches but I have no idea what to do about it in the coming months as he gets more mobile and independent.

    1. Lauren Mooney says:

      Only let the older one watch tv when baby is napping. Works for my household! We tell me 3yo that it’s bad for babies brains (and also for his if he watches too much). He understands and that’s that.

  14. Makingitupaswegoalong says:

    Thanks for the post. Our son is adopted and came to us as 18 months being used to watching TV almost all day as one of his foster brothers had severe autism and need constant background noise. We have reduced the TV time hugely but not entirely restricted it because of trying to balance his need for continuity against the negative impact of screen time. He is now nearly three and happy and thriving and is great at making up games and creative play. But he wants us to be involved in his play at almost all times. Again, this could be due to the trauma he has experienced but from your post I am now also wondering if it is because he has had screen time. Any tips for how we can encourage independent play and reduce his screen time even further? Thanks (from the U.K.)

    1. Could you be as little involved in his play as possible? Slowly weaning him off your involvement until you’re just sitting near him as he plays?

  15. I am looking for as many creative ideas as possible to keep my 6 month old off of TV. Originally i felt Dave and Ava nursery songs were ok for her until i noticed she was glued. She would ignore me and look at the tv laugh and pretend shes talking to her friends .. substituted ideas are what im looking for but for a 5-6 month old. She turned 6 months 4 days ago

    1. Lauren Mooney says:

      I don’t think there are tv shows that are recommended for that age of a baby. But if I had to suggest something I would suggest give a mouse a cookie.

  16. christina says:

    I feel you guys on the need for our kiddos to have us sit in the peanut gallery. Parenting is hard.. 2 year olds who cry at every drop of the hat can make momma miserable.

  17. Could you create a safe space for your one year old where your 3 year old can’t get in?

  18. Wondering if anyone has any reccs for gates/large play yard setups. We are fortunate to have a big space for baby to play and it is working beautifully now that she is immobile at 7 months but this is about to change. We would need to further contain her once she is older (particularly away from some nasty edges). Of course I’m always hovering nearby but would be great to keep her happily independent streak alive!

    1. I used to agree 100% with this article, but I’m not so sure any more. I have until recently been strongly anti-TV and my children, 7, 4, and 2 would watch maybe 1-2 times a week for an hour or two (the two year old hardly at all, as tv time usually occurred during naptime.). Recently my 4 year old has developed a strong interest in tv and other media, and has learned to turn the TV on herself. I’ve been experimenting with not limiting tv as a way of making it just another option, not a precious forbidden fruit, and haven’t really found the scary effects that are often warned of. My children, while they are watching a lot more tv, are still happily engaging in many other activities, are creative, still love to read, happy to play outside, and they choose other activities willingly. I’m not sure what to think. At what point do we have to accept that our children are future digital citizens and engage with them in thoughtful media use? If we wait until they are teenagers to let them have a tablet, are they likely to look to us as guides, or to their friends? I’m genuinely curious/confused about this issue. Any thoughts?

      1. Thank you! Watching TV at a young age was a positive influenced on my son. He could listen to the orchestra score of a movie and describe the scene. This led to piano lessons at starting at age 3 (he asked) and a life long passion for music. Fast forward to today at age 27, he works as a composer for TV and film in LA.
        Some shows he has worked on… “The Lion Guard” and “The Wonderful World of Mickey Mouse.” You can bet that my granddaughter has seen her Uncle’s shows. She is not even two yet. (Oh the horror)
        So much skill, research, and talent goes into quality TV for children. Shows can be a springboard to learning, pretending, singing, dancing, empathy, problem solving, etc.
        Of course I agree with moderation but all screen time being bad? From experience with the children in my life, I strongly disagree.

  19. Elizabeth says:

    More succinctly than my previous corny, my question is this: I agree with limiting babies’ exposure to screens. And toddlers’. What do you do as your kids get older and become very very interested in screen-related activities, as severely limiting or banning them, in my experience, seems to only increase the desire for them?

  20. I think the misunderstanding here is that parents dont really get what independent play is or how to foster it in children. I see how parents expect to keep children entertained with toys or tv. They dont’ play with the toy for more than 10 minutes? Then they think the problem was the toy! They have all these rooms filled with toys that are barely used and overload children with stimulus. All children want, and what their little brains are wired for at such an early age, is to be with US, to learn from US as much as they can. It is a sensitive period for social learning. So if they want to come in the kitchen while you’re cooking, bring them with you! Give them spices to taste and smell and little tasks to do. Let them help you empty the dishwasher, sweep and mop. Doing laundry? Let them help!! If they have those moments of connection and fulfill that inherent NEED to learn from you, they will have moments of solitude where they explore on their own. Less is more! A few toys that are versatile for play and just their natural environment. Let them go around and explore inside and outdoors.

  21. Hi Janet, thank you for your post. I have a question. Do you have any suggestions for how to keep a baby engaged in independent play activities when her older sister is allowed TV time? Even other activities that my older daughter (almost 4) would do happily alone (blocks, coloring, play doh, etc.) are difficult for the baby (16 months) to be involved in without constant supervision, and she rarely wants to play with anything she doesn’t see big sister doing. She will play independently with age appropriate toys if big sister is not around. I had no trouble keeping my older daughter occupied without screen time but now find it difficult to have them both playing independently peacefully together. Would love to hear your opinion about this! Thank you.

  22. This is all very well if you have a child who is happy to play independently! My nearly 4 year old refuses point blank to play on his own, always has….but it’s impossible for me to constantly play with him so he just whines “play with me” or becomes destructive. He never had tv until his baby sister came along and now I don’t really have a choice! So how do I stop the tv and get him to play independently?

  23. Victoria Elvira Arellano Echeverria says:

    I ´ve tried it with my daugther of 3years old and doesnt work. She has a montessori like setting in the living room. And I tried to work in my computer next to her but she only wants my attention. I think the laotop is already a trigger for her.
    At the end, we end up both frustrated and I just stop working.
    What should I do?

  24. Veronika Skibicka says:

    Thank you for this article! Indeed it is a huge dilemma for todays parents as we usually don’t have other family members at hand when we need help. My older son is 3,5 now and I let him watch TV when I need to put his baby brother to sleep. This is always a trigger for tantrum so TV is how we cope with the situation now. Of course I don’t feel 100% happy but what makes it easier for me is that I always turn on the English channels as English is a foreign language for us. Like this he gets 60min per day native English audio practice with his full attention lol when he was younger, 1-2 years, and I needed to get my hands free, audio stories worked miracles for us. He would sit and listen like hypnotised and I think I need to thank those stories for his perfect vocabulary and grammar now. Also, we have so called ‘self reading’ books here in Slovakia. They come with a special pen that reads the stories, dialogues, comments in the books as the kid browses through the pages. For older kids there are also quizzes and questions the book asks and the kid has to find the answer on the page and click on it with the pen. If you have something similar in your country, I fully recommend. My son is able to spend 30-40min playing with them all alone.

  25. I appreciate this article, and so far have not resorted to any TV at all with my now 11 month old. I’ve not even been tempted because I find so much children’s programming obnoxious and/or vapid anyway. Baby has two safe play areas she can be set down and left in, one small and one larger. I have to put her in them to cook or do dishes and such like. But still so much of the day I cannot get the break you speak of for getting things done, without baby crying or even physically fighting me putting her down into said safe play areas. I’ll set her down because I need to, for getting something done, but it sure is miserable doing it when I’m just listening to screaming the whole time as opposed to her learning to play and occupy herself. So when does the stage of her wanting to try more self occupying start? Is there more I need to do and set up to encourage it somehow?

  26. Desperately waiting for an updated article on living in a screen filled world! How to react and be when your screen free kids see other kids now holding tvs out, not just when you go over peoples houses. It just feels overwhelming at times because it can feel like its coming from all sides at times.

    My 3 year old is increasingly interested, but really want to wait until my 20 month old is her age to introduce since our older has really benefitted!

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