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	<title>Janet Lansbury &#187; boundaries</title>
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		<title>The Baby Social Scene &#8211; 5 Hints For Creating Safe And Joyful Playgroups</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/06/the-baby-social-scene-5-hints-for-creating-safe-and-joyful-playgroups/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 03:16:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
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                <description><![CDATA[A recent post, Is Your Baby A Bully? Genius? Shy? Why We Should Lose Labels, stirred up unexpected controversy. Several parents were apparently shocked by my suggestion that babies could play together with minimal intervention, without adults reminding the babies to share, or asking them to give something back because “so-and-so had it first”. 
The comments [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/06/the-baby-social-scene-5-hints-for-creating-safe-and-joyful-playgroups/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>Magda Gerber&#8217;s Gift To Grown-Ups &#8211; Parenting That Engages The Mind</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/05/magda-gerbers-gift-to-grown-ups-parenting-that-engages-the-mind/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 03:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
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                <description><![CDATA[Infant expert Magda Gerber’s contributions to the lives of children are widely acclaimed by educators and child care professionals.  Less acknowledged is the tremendous gift her Educaring philosophy is to us. Magda’s theories not only make our job more enjoyable and successful &#8212; they elevate the child care experience. They stretch us and engage our [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/05/magda-gerbers-gift-to-grown-ups-parenting-that-engages-the-mind/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>No Bad Kids &#8211; Toddler Discipline Without Shame (9 Guidelines)</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/04/no-bad-kids-toddler-discipline-without-shame-9-guidelines/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2010 02:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Crying and Tantrums]]></category>
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                <description><![CDATA[A toddler acting out is not shameful, nor is it behavior that needs punishing. It’s a cry for attention, a shout-out for sleep, or a call to action for firmer, more consistent limits. It is the push-pull of your toddler testing his burgeoning independence. He has the overwhelming impulse to step out of bounds, while [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/04/no-bad-kids-toddler-discipline-without-shame-9-guidelines/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>Attachment Parenting Debate (For Crying Out Loud!)</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/02/attachment-parenting-debate-for-crying-out-loud/</link>
		<comments>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/02/attachment-parenting-debate-for-crying-out-loud/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 00:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
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                <description><![CDATA[The other day I made a comment that led to an animated online discussion with a blogger (Annie) who writes about Attachment Parenting. Attachment Parenting is a movement founded by William Sears, M.D.  He recommends maintaining close physical contact with a baby 24 hours a day for the sake of bonding.  Parents are encouraged to keep [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/02/attachment-parenting-debate-for-crying-out-loud/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>Our Children Choose Us</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/02/our-children-choose-us/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 17:33:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Classes, Lessons, School]]></category>
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                <description><![CDATA[Many of us have the sense that the children in our care chose us. We feel it especially when a child’s needs tap into our weaknesses, we are forced to adjust, and that adjustment makes us change for the better.  It is as if their souls zeroed in on us and decided, “That woman and [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/02/our-children-choose-us/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>Babies Crying &#8211; A Parent&#8217;s &#8216;Bad Day&#8217; Survival Secret</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/01/babies-crying-a-parent%e2%80%99s-%e2%80%98bad-day%e2%80%99-survival-secret/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 00:38:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
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                <description><![CDATA[Okay, right away I admit my title may be a little misleading. I don’t really have any magic tricks to relieve a parent’s bad day.  The old standby’s like massage, cocktails, sex (preferably with someone, like a spouse), chatting with an empathetic friend, exercise, or a shopping spree can work in a pinch, but they [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2010/01/babies-crying-a-parent%e2%80%99s-%e2%80%98bad-day%e2%80%99-survival-secret/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>You&#8217;ll Be Sorry &#8211; Children and Apologies</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2009/12/youll-be-sorry/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 09:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
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                <description><![CDATA[Parenting can be a humbling and embarrassing experience, especially when we find ourselves at the mercy of our children’s guilelessness. Children say and do what they feel. While this instinct is endearing, even admirable, it can also be a bit awkward in the moment when, for example, our daughter spots a topless man in the [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2009/12/youll-be-sorry/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>Free As a Dog (Parenting With Calm Control)</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2009/12/free-as-a-dog/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 10:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
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                <description><![CDATA[With interest, amusement and head-nodding understanding I read the recent New York Times article “Becoming the Alpha Dog in Your Own Home.” Cesar Millan, TV’s Dog Whisperer, is inspiring armies of parents to use his dog training techniques to bring the security of order and discipline to their children’s lives. Parents are realizing that children, [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2009/12/free-as-a-dog/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>Becoming Unglued &#8211; Giving Your Child the &#8216;Alone Time&#8217; Both of You Need</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2009/11/becoming-unglued/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 16:59:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
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                <description><![CDATA[HI! I have a question. I would LOVE for my 2 1/2 yr old to play independently! Huge problem: she is glued to my hip, and I do mean glued. She gets tons and tons of one on one quality time with me (both pure, silly fun and also educational) she is extremely happy when [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2009/11/becoming-unglued/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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		<title>A Toddler&#8217;s Need for Boundaries &#8211; No Walk in the Park</title>
		<link>http://www.janetlansbury.com/2009/10/securing-boundaries-no-walk-in-the-park/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 19:48:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>janet</dc:creator>
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                <description><![CDATA[When an infant approaches the end of his first year, parents begin to struggle with boundaries. Soft-hearted parents allow a child to climb all over them in my parent/infant class. The child is searching for limits and boundaries for his behavior. But moms and dads are often afraid to say, “I don’t want you to [...] <a href="http://www.janetlansbury.com/2009/10/securing-boundaries-no-walk-in-the-park/">Read More</a>]]></description>

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