It is so true – you think once the baby is born, you will know what to do and when immediately.
A lot of mothers I have been arguing with about the Pikler/Gerber method have been telling me I should just use my instincts rather than read books. Well, I believe it can’t harm to read a book and learn something new which you then can adjust to your instincts and altogether make a good job in parenting.

I am glad I have discovered it all right on time, still struggling from time to time but knowing that I am on the right path.

I always loved to color, draw, do beading, crochet, or something with my hands. I was never forced but I was encouraged. I would just go off by myself and “make something”. I also liked being alone and going outside by myself.

I will always remember the day that I came home with a bouquet of dandelions that I picked for my mother(to me they were beautiful bright yellow flowers). She made a big fuss and took the special crystal vase from on top of the refridgerator and put them in water and placed them in the center of the table. I was so happy.

I feel that encouragement is the most important thing for a child. Janet you make this point – so needed for parents today.

My Mother believed in this concept also, and there is no doubt in my mind, that that is why I have such a creative and imaginative mind.

I remember seeing my Mom bring out soft blankets, lay them on the carpet in the living room and hearing my mother suggest to the mothers of her 53 grandchildren, “Why don’t you lay the baby down so he ( or she) can stretch out, observe and have some private time while we visit.” I REMEMBER THIS! And Janet you brought this gorgeous memory up to me. It makes me want to cry it’s so beautiful.
It makes perfect and loving sense.

What a fabulous journey you’re creating for your life and for others. i’ll be checking in every day, darling woman! Hip-hip-horray!

I send you love…..

Kataleena